By Brooke Waters
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November 11, 2024
Rest. It’s practically a curse word. In our culture that is obsessed with fast, getting the most and never sleeping til your dead, rest is fighting words. There just simply isn’t room for it. Often we hear conversations that start with a typical “how are you doing” often are responded to with “I’m so busy.” Busy has become a badge of honor. It’s often used, as least when I’ve done it, as a way to communicate importance or value. I’m really important, I’m so busy, is what I was really saying. But what happens is we end up in a chronic state of restlessness. Tired. Hurried. Busy. Overloaded. What’s the antidote? A perspective change. Operating from a place of rest. Letting go of people pleasing, hurry, chronic exhaustion. The perspective change means letting go of control, and then shifting our perspective. Shift it from chasing some elusive I’ll rest when I finish x, y or z to living out of a place of rest in union with Jesus. Rest is counter cultural. Jesus speaks directly to this in Matthew 11:28. Here’s what how the Passion translation puts it: “Are you weary carrying a heavy burden? Then come to me. I will refresh your life, for I am your oasis. Simply join your life with mine. Learn my ways and you’ll discover that I’m gentle, humble, easy to please. You will find refreshment and rest in me. For all that I require of you will be pleasant and easy to bear.” Those words are so beautiful and simple. He will refresh my life, He’s an oasis and He’s easy to please. Amazing. So how do we actually rest? Good question. A really great place to start is with something very central to restfulness: Sitting with God. Do you know how to just sit with him? That may sound like a difficult task, but actually it can be quite simple. A really tangible way to practice this is by the very act of breathing. Breathing itself is an act of worship. In fact, God’s name Yaweh is actually broken down to Ya, meaning to inhale, and Weh, meaning to exhale. So everytime you breathe it’s really a form of worship. Let’s take a minute together and worship God with the practice of box breathing. It’s simply breathing in to the count of four, holding your breath to the count of four, exhaling to the count of four and holding no breath in your lungs to the count of four. Let’s try it. First, get comfortable. Next, take a sip of water and close your eyes. Now let’s spend a minute or two just breathing. As you breathe, imagine yourself inhaling God’s love and exhaling any toxic thoughts. How do you feel? Pay attention to what you’re feeling in your body as well as your mind or heart. Take a minute to journal about anything you sensed or felt while you were breathing. There are no right or wrong answers here. It’s simply information about what’s going on inside of you. And then ask God, what do you want me to know about this? Write whatever comes to mind . Liz